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Is there anything technology’s not capable of? The world of sex tech is ever expanding, from the best blow job sex toys (yes, you read that correctly) to dildos that do the thrusting for you and sex toy jewelry that is as spicy to wear as it is to play with. “Blow job sex toys are intended to replicate the physical sensations of receiving oral sex on a penis,” says clinical sexologist Sarah Melancon, PhD. Unlike typical male masturbation sleeves, these toys use suction and specific textures to mimic the motions of a blow job.
These toys are especially great for singles or people in long-distance relationships who miss the feeling of getting a blow job (or just want to switch up their masturbation routine), says Melancon. It can also be a great sex toy for couples when one partner is averse to blow jobs, struggles with jaw pain, or has other challenges in providing oral sex, she adds.
There’s a large variety of products within the category of blow job toys. “BJ tools range from edible and/or flavored lube to hand assists to mouth assists, as well as from very simple to state-of-the-art,” says sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, sexpert for Lovers sexual wellness brand and retailer. “BJ toys are great because they allow unpredictability in the bedroom by introducing something new, and you can experiment with the toy's capability to see what flows best with your sexual scene.” Melancon recommends using lube with these toys; water-based lube is a good bet if the toy is made with silicone, which doesn’t pair well with silicone lube (and can actually cause the material to degrade over time).
Oh, and as with the best vibrators, there’s no need to worry that a penis toy will render a partner useless. “No toy can replace the sexual feelings we get from a partner, though we can get a lot closer to those sensations we love, plus enjoy a lot more pleasure,” says Melancon. If any of those things apply to you—or if you’re just curious—this list of best blow job sex toys comes highly vetted and expert-recommended.
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Not only is this manual suction toy textured, but “it also provides two different-sized ends to choose the tightness you prefer,” Melancon says. And thanks to its quick-clean design, it’s easy to wash, sanitize, and dry. The latex- and phthalate-free silicone model comes in three colors—black, navy, or minty—and requires no batteries or plugs, so you can take it anywhere.
Cons: no vibration, too narrow for some
This toy, which fits snugly around the penis, has a window so that you can look inside and see exactly what you’re doing. In addition to seven vibration speeds and rhythms, it’s got beaded rings that move up and down to create a fun texture. “You can use it for edging by pressing the ‘pause’ button and train yourself for climax by returning right where you left off,” says Stewart.
Pros: latex, phthalate-free, 6" insertable length
This twist on the classic Fleshlight is “designed to feel like oral sex, with an extra-tight opening made to feel like lips, a textured insert that feels like a tongue, and a sucking sensation,” says Melancon. You can put the inside in a bowl of warm water before using it to heat it up, and the clear sleeve lets you and/or your partner see what’s going on.
“This budget-friendly oral sex toy is ribbed and creates a mild suction when the end is pinched closed,” says Melancon. The 5.5-inch-long, 2.7-inch-wide gadget has a realistic mouthlike opening and comes with “refresh powder” for cleaning.
Pros: cheap, easy to clean
Cons: may be too wide for some, too short for others
“This toy is amazing because of its features,” says Lee Phillips, EdD, psychotherapist and certified sex and couples therapist. “People have reported that it feels like a real blow job.” There are 48 settings, combining eight automatic suction modes and six speeds. Each setting creates a four-minute session that’ll blow your mind (literally). The sleeve is removable and can also be used as a standalone stroker.
Pros: fully automatic, manufacturer warranty
Cons: expensive, must be plugged in
“People have shared that this toy is like the real deal,” says Phillips. Perhaps its coolest feature is that it can be set to move in sync with porn videos as well as other sex toys, which means you can connect it to a long-distance partner’s toy for a realistic experience.
A blow job powered by artificial intelligence? It's here. “The Autoblow uses a sleeve surrounded by rings and beads that stimulate the penis once inserted,” says Melancon. You can connect this to Wi-Fi to customize the motions (there are 25 different features, plus 10 adjustable lights) or have a partner control it from a distance. It comes with an adjustable penis gripper for tightness, along with three interchangeable silicone sleeves to help you find the right size. “The toy feels best when the sleeve has a tighter fit,” Melancon says.
This toy is realistic not just in feel but also in appearance: It has an actual face with a mouth that opens up. “This is a great toy because of its human-like features,” says Phillips. “It has a mouth, tongue, and a deep throat.” It even has teeth and tonsils and is great to use for training if you struggle with erectile dysfunction.
Cons: no vibration or auto thrusting, too short for some
Here’s another lifelike option, complete with lips, a tongue, teeth, and bumps and ridges on the inside. “It looks and feels like a real mouth and face, with the added bonus of great suction,” says certified sex therapist Jenni Skyler, PhD.
This toy has 15 suction modes as well as 15 vibration patterns and three temperature settings, stimulating the penis with air pressure. Strokers like these are “lovely as well because they are rechargeable,” says Skyler. “These don't look like a mouth, but they are great for sensation.” This one’s charge lasts up to three hours.
Cons: weaker suction, buttons aren't always intuitive to use
This affordable, minimalistic toy gets the job done, with a mouth-shaped opening, a tunnel lined with nubs and ridges, and an easy-to-grip design. “Some toys are manual and controlled by your own hand, like the All In Stroker, which is clear and allows a man to watch the progress of his penis,” says Skyler.
Pros: tight fit, easy cleaning
Cons: made of potentially porous jelly, smell unpleasant to some
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